Being Specific

Do you realize if you started (truly started) to work with the last 4 thoughts of the week your life has probably taken a dramatic shift in the direction of your dreams. It doesn’t take that much to change the course of your life but it does take something!
 
Thought of the Week:
If you are not specific on who you want to BE, don’t be surprised if you come to find out you don’t know who YOU are!
 
Action Step:
Do you have a journal? You should start one. Check out this video to help get you started.
 
There are two key words that get misrepresented in discussions about success and self. Before you can do anything you must first BE. BEING is a state of mind that influences the way you act. BEING is the deep roots within you. BEING is that sixth sense, the values (good and bad) that are woven into the very fabric that is you. Change BEING and the outside world automatically changes.
 
This is the challenge and why so many people don’t know who they are and where they are going. They think, or want to believe, the change is outside them and so that is where they go to work. You know many of these people…they say things like: if I could just get a break; if my boss would just let me; if the government would just give me; if I didn’t have to work so much I would; If my wife/husband would just; if my parents weren’t so; if the economy was better my business would; etc. etc.
 
If this is you, even some of the time, I suggest you stop it because the more you BE like this the more it becomes you and guess where you are then. Start becoming aware of who you are and write down who you want to BE.
 
Your friend & partner,
 
Paul

Life is Fair

I hope you had an awesome weekend! Here is your thought for the week and action step. Take time to think about these thoughts and how they can help improve your life.
 
Thought of the Week:
Life is fair and just because YOU created it!
 
Action Step:
Understanding this quote gives you power over your life…all aspects of it. You have to be willing to walk through the false fire to come out unburned. But, we get comfortable in our lives and it becomes easier to complain and cry wolf. The only problem is the wolf of your life is you!
 
The key to changing your life is to just start somewhere. Most people don’t start within because they need external approval that is works. That is like standing in front of a cold fire place demanding that it show you fire and heat and then, only then, will you put firewood in it and light it.
 
This week seek to move from the “reasons” side of life to the “cause” side. Life happens. However, if you focus on what you could have done differently or better, or whatever, instead of what someone did or didn’t do to you or for you, then you move to the cause side of life and the is where one becomes empowered and there is where change that you want becomes possible.
 
Your friend and partner,
 
Paul

Be Afraid of…

Imagine if you were afraid or scared of what you might miss today or what you might not become instead of being scared of what may happen or what people may think of what you may do? Would that just change the way you see the world? Would that make a major difference in your life.

Be scared of what you might miss out on because you didn’t follow your heart. Be scared or afraid of what or who you currently are so you can move into who you really might be. Jim Rohn always says “don’t miss out on life”. I think we have become a society that has channels their fears in the wrong directions. We are afraid to become who we truly are. We should be afraid of what we already are!

Your friend & partner,

Paul

What Do You Focus On

YOU WILL GET EXACTLY WHAT YOU FOCUS UPON

This is Day 11 in the Mind Over Money Program. It is a very interesting item. The studies show that we process about 11 million bps (bits per second) of information unconsciously and only are aware (consciously) of about 134 bps. Imagine if you could tap the rest of those resources? Well, you can using NLP, Hypnosis and Time Line Therapy.

This is why we say in NLP “The Map is NOT the Territory” or “Accept the Person and Change the Behavior” or “People are doing the best they can with the information they have (or are aware of)” or “Perception is Projection”. It is because of this that we get what [Read more...]

I Have A Question

This is an audio I recorded the other day and thought I would share it…enjoy! (It takes a second or two to load so be patient…worth it!) [Read more...]

How To Supercharge Your Magnetic Power

 

HOW TO SUPERCHARGE YOUR MAGNETIC POWER TO AUTOMATICALLY ATTRACT WHATEVER YOU WANT

This is Day 12 of the Mind Over Money Program. See Mind Over Money Post. There is some great NLP in here and I’ll let you try and figure out what it is.

All of the psychological principles you have been studying lead to the truth that properly utilizing your creative energy will magnetically draw to you the experiences you desire. [Read more...]

Mysteries of Rapport

Rapport. That magic feeling of trust and friendship when we see that we are on the same “wave length” with another person. The times when you meet someone, instantly like them, and say to yourself, “We’re a lot alike”. We have all felt this, but do you know how to actually create it?

The co-developers in the field of Neuro Linguistic Programming (NLP) began studying people who had the ability to [Read more...]

A good life is a lot like rock climbing

First, there are those who decide they are not going to climb and never get to experience anything higher than where they are at. Then there are those who want to climb but are afraid of the height and let the fear turn them around. Then there are [Read more...]

Pre-suppositions (Framework) of NLP

The Pre-suppositions of Neuro Linguistic Programming (NLP)

In NLP we pre-suppose certain beliefs that facilite the ability to look at things differently.

1. NLP is not a model of repair…it is a model of acquisition…a generative model.

2. The techniques of NLP are not NLP. The techniques are a product of thinking a certain way. Or better said: NLP is a way of thinking that leaves behind a trail of techniques!
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How To Find The Right NLP Training

It seems there are strong feelings within the NLP community about what is “good” NLP training and what is “bad” NLP training. I’d like to share my thoughts.

I think that there are many opportunities for people to get excellent training in NLP, and yet some people base their decision of where to go on geographical location or convenient time frame, assuming that all NLP Practitioner Trainings are created equal (after all, they all have the same name). This can be a big mistake!! There is such a wide assortment of quality and course content in this field, so taking [Read more...]